
It makes me sad how much I relate to this little chart here. Some people, no matter what you have been through and how long you have been friends, just can not be happy for you when they themselves are not in a relationship. I have friends that have barely even acknowledged that I am in a relationship and Joe and I will have been together 2 years in March. I wish I was joking.
Before Joe and I got together, I was ALWAYS the single one. Like, for real. Always. I am sure that I acted like a brat on occasion when I wanted girl time and my girls only wanted to be with their dudes. But, I was also almost every single one of my friends’ boyfriend’s favorite people to hang out with. I’m going to assume that has something to do with the fact that I wasn’t a huge fucking douche all the time about my friend being in a relationship. I don’t understand why everyone can’t be as understanding, awesome and supportive as I was. It’s a real downer when you are finally at a good and happy place in your life and the people who helped get you there can’t be happy for you.
This is a long winded way of saying that haters are the worst.